Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Who's Your Best Friend?

Who's is your best friend? Your buddy since kindergarten? The guy you met at summer camp? A new friend? All of those are great, but I want to talk specifically about those you love. And I mean love love. Boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives (I'm not sure some of the people that read this could be married), all that good stuff. So are they your best friend? Or better? Think back to when you were dating, or just friends. Remember that? The best time you ever had with our significant other right? Unfortunately, sometimes that changes when things go to the next level. But why?? Wasn't if fun spending every waking moment thinking about that guy or girl? Why should that all change now?

People say love is a game. And it is, but not in the same way that most say it. Sure loves a game, and you can lose, but if you want to win, then of course you can! Love may be a game, but its a game for only two. You can play by your own special set of rules. Hannah (my beautiful girlfriend) is my best friend, who I could tell anything, who could always be there for me. I think that whoever that person is for you, however far your relationship is, the partnership should be as special and sacred as that best friend fro kindergarten that you told everything. Or the person you stayed up countless hours with at sleepovers, where you talked about your picture perfect wedding, and the picture perfect guy, who would eventually come to rescue you. If you have already been rescued, then what do you have to be worried about? The one you love should be the best of friends, there for you every time, somebody your never afraid to talk to.

But over all of the Shining armor and the perfect wedding, trust that God put you together for a reason. Being God, he pretty much knows whats right. He doesn't play sports but he makes a goal in ALL of them. Everywhere? Everywhere. Believe that your paths crossed because you were meant to be together, blessed by God. Trust, pray, and be happy.

If your still one of those people looking for somebody to love (JB reference, I love that song), then be patient. When your going through one of those days and you need to talk to that one person, telling them "I wish I had a boy/girlfriend, you may not realize it, but it may turn out that the person you've been looking for all this time, is the one you found a long time ago.

Everything happens for a reason, and every relationship is blessed by God. Trust in Him and He will make everything work in you and your love favor.

God Bless
-Mason

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